There is a trap that we tend to fall into – this seems to be a psychological enforcement caused by humanity – which derives from one basic concept that is drilled into our heads: by pleasing others you gain happiness.

This is true that pleasing others does make one happy but this is also a trap, on one side this can be your ego playing and then helping others you are always looking for what makes you happy OR you endlessly try to make one singular person happy.

It is not possible to make everyone happy, the key to this is to find what truly makes you happy and give back in that scenario – think of it as playing in a niche market or better yet as simply put by many: play by your own rules.